This title seems to be grammatically related with a negative topic.
First of all, I am not going to offend anyone or any matter over here...
I just merely have the intention to express something about that.
Well~We can see things in different ways and from different directions. It always makes a big difference somehow.
Case A
A friend who likes to talk nonsense all the way you get along with him or her..It is supposed to be very annoying and unappreciated. You would think that he/she should be very thoughtless, inconsiderate and even immature. It ends up building a distance between both of you.
But...let's change the way we used to look at something.
The words of a man don't 100% belong to his heart or mindset.erm...The man may scheme...why?for what? Scheming to prevent from being hurt emotionally by enemies. Therefore the man chose to lie and even act like a fool in front all the ppl all the time. Since he might know that the enemies will be able to hurt someone when they know someone's weak points. The mask the man used is to protect himself. There is reasonable and sensible even though he doesn't reveal all the truth within him/her.
Such a lie...but a pity one...There are plenty people using such a way to protect himself..Check and see...They behave in this way for many factors...^^
However, there is a different case.
Case B
People in case B get along with their friends. The words of sweet and romance are always spoken.
Seemingly, they should be in an intimate relationship. That should be appreciated and wonderful. Erm... Let's make a change on our perspective.
I strongly believe that the time plays an important role to determine the stability of a relationship.
It is like melting point or boiling point play the role to determine the strength of the chemical bonding in a chemical compound.
Maybe, they just deliberately say something sweet in front of the people.It is to allow the surrounding people being able to judge them and even give compliment on them.
However, there is just a weak bond forming between them. Time goes on, once a heat wave comes, bond will be overwhelmed and broken completely.Then, they end up to be separated as far as possible
The same thing will happen repeatedly among people B.
I would like to take this as an example to show how superficial they are.
Since they are just like hydrogen gas, H2.They just form weak van der waal force between each other due to their atomic structure. They are just polarized temporary. It causes two different polarities on them and they attract each other at the end.When will they be polarized? Maybe once they find some benefits on the other people as if the positive end of a atom attract the negative end of the other atom. They get along with each other with a variety of schemes and purposes. Meanwhile, once they have achieved their purpose, the bond will no longer form...they tend to form with other people.
Is it cruel right?But they are also the victims, since they treat each other as their own pray unwittingly. However, their nature makes them to deserve such problem. As long as they still remain to be a hydrogen molecule, the same problem will continuously happen among them.
Lies..What will you feel, if your friend...good friend betrayed you in the face of public? as if a vulnerable prey being swallowed in the mouth of case B people-hunter?
Resentment, anger, depression and disappointment would fill up your crest completely.
and......What should you be angry of?Nothing...In fact, I think you should feel angry of your naivety. You just don't know how to protect yourself by learning how to recognize the nature of your buddy. Be alert....and be aware of who you should cherish...who you should get away from.
I am here to advise all of us...imitate the way diamond forms...Its structure is awesome! They form strong covalent bond between each other atoms instead of week van der waal force.^^
Wish all of us having a good and healthy relationship with each other.^^
God love you...
Thanks for your patience to read my post...^^
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