Sunday, 28 June 2009

Reply laaaaa

For guys only: read this and you will find yourselves nodding furiously, unless if you are Mr.Ang aka Mr.Popular. (Ang being the Hokkien term for popular, not your surname.)

http://jason914.blogspot.com/2009/06/god-tell-me-to-do-same.html

Indeed Jason. I feel you buddy.

Let me first tell you how I think. First of all, I think it rude to leave people hanging around waiting for your answer. They SMS-ed you for an answer and it is normal to get frustrated when the reply is late. Or, it did not come at all. Grr~

The spice added to this frustration is as pointed out by Mr. Jason:

'At the same time, they can sms, talking about nonsense with their other friends.'

How true! Funny how things are unfair aren't they? One wonders whether one is still a friend after receiving such a treatment. The question mark is destroyed after a guy listened to the reasons offered by those Flowers:

'Busy... Lazy... Don't feel like sms-ing...' and whatnot.

Who said anything about sms-ing? It's a question that's waiting for your answer dudedess. It is one thing to turn down the offer of a conversation; it is quite another to simply ignore a question put forward.

Say if there was an emergency and the SMS was never delivered out. Being a sensible person, an explanation should be offered to that person. Leaving question marks that eventually turn into 'grrr... :@' is a bad thing in any relationships.

It's not easy to be nice nowadays, be it guys or girls. There are morons and psychopaths running outside there, yes. But surely manners are a basic part of a civilisation?

2 comments:

kaemin said...

haha...manner is matter... however, if really emergency, a call is more recommended... instead of sms...

Niel said...

kaemin: im sure you of all the peopl should know what im talking abt. -___-