Tuesday, 16 June 2009

Random

I have a question for you all who are reading this: do you get jealous when a guy/girl you care about tells you that he/she has got an ex bf/gf ? Ok, maybe you don't feel exactly jealous, but do you feel bad? Curious, perhaps? Do you feel uncomfortable? I think you guys will get what I mean.

This is a sensitive issue. I risk delaying my marriage for at least a few years for writing this.

Well then, what's the answer?

I think the answer varies. Some really don't care about it. This question usually arises when you and him/her are talking about yourselves. Of course, this also means that you and him/her have got to a certain level of that relationship to be able to talk about each other's past. And usually it's you who cared enough to feel jealous, that is if you do anyway.

The degree of 'damage' varies as well. I say damage because that is what it looks like to jealous ones, while those who don't have no issue. Jealous friends and lovers and whatnot view such history as damage done.

Just a random topic. ^^

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